Ever wonder how the ****** words exist? I've been wondering myself, words like "bodoh", "celaka", "sial", "mangkuk" or in english like "idiot", "shit", "bastard", "Son of a beach", "F**k"??? WTF!!! How this shit existed anyway??!!
And what about the users who used this word like "eating rice" meaning applying to their lives everyday?? And what bout those who being called honourably by these words?? I kept wondering...Why these bullshit happens??!!
Well to relate it myself, I'm the user of these "cursing" words and mostly who's being the "target" to them, i mean the words..
What's soo good about it? Do you feel good when sm1 called u that way? I'm sure you're not happy with it, unless you're just inhuman.
How about the sensitivity? Yup ppl who is extremly sensitive about it and those who is totally Insensitive about doing this... Which category u are?
Smtimes I wish these "cursing" words just never exisisted, which i think its completely impossible to happen, there will be another words with same effects be created.
In these days, I see ppl surrounding r being just insensitive about using abusing words.. It just hurts, even if you're not the one to be called like that. Its just another form of aggresiveness. And the way they say it, its really like holding back your shit from coming out to hold your anger.
How to counteract this bullshits u ask me? Easy, just be patient. Lets just say if that person abuses that word to show he/she's angry, with whatever, ignore them, even its you being the victim.
If they're trying to provoke you? PATIENT... I know its not easy but its really damn important to be patient. If you feel like fighting back, its no use. You're just "pouring oil to the fire". Leave from that person if you must. Share with your friend, don't keep it to your heart.
may GBU..
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